PASTOR’S
PEN October, 2007
Dear
Holy Trinity Family and Friends,
Early in my ministry I worked with a
near-retirement-age pastor who had the long view. He remembered the days “way back when” the
only one who led the worship service was the pastor! (He’d predictably reminiscence about the
simplicity of those good ol’ days whenever a needed lay person was running late
J.) These days we’re blessed to have quite a
team. We have an acolyte, Communion
assistants, sometimes separate lectors (unconfirmed youth, not yet able to
serve Holy Communion, but more than capable of reading the Word beautifully),
not to mention ushers, singers and instrumentalists. And those are just the people whose service
is visible and audible! What about the
Altar Guild members who come early and stay late to take care of setting the
altar and cleaning the vessels afterwards, the volunteers who fold and stuff
bulletins during the week, as well as keeping the pew pencils sharpened and the
pew racks neat?
The funerals and memorial services of these past
weeks have demonstrated once again how incredibly generous Holy Trinity family
members are with their time and talents.
Besides for those who contributed to worship in the ways mentioned
above, our Care Corps has provided luncheons, our Property team has manicured
the grounds and done set-up/break-down of tables in Fellowship Hall, and many
of you have ministered to the grieving families simply by being present at
funeral homes, church services or cemeteries.
Our staff (Diane Churchman in the
office, Ned Perwo in the choir loft, Bill Schoppe throughout the building),
helps ministry happen, but their and my best efforts would amount to nothing
without the support and ministry of our lay people. A basic tenet of Lutheran belief is that a
big part of any pastor’s ministry is “enabling the saints,” as
In the month of October we’ll be hearing from
members of our Congregational Council about future staffing. Whoever comes on board will be blessed to be
part of a faith community made up of deeply committed and gifted people who
wholeheartedly invest themselves in ministry.
Visitors often say, “What a beautiful church….” My response is, “Yes, and the people are even
better than the building!”
Encompassing ninety year olds praying for us from home and newborns
bathed in the baptismal font, we are a congregation that spans the life cycle. Including those who are “cradle Lutherans”
and those who come to us from other denominations, we are a congregation that
is strong in our diversity. Paid staff
is here to enable members to perform their God-given ministries; in some cases,
the first step is to help you discover the gifts that suggest the ways in which
God has prepared you to serve.
It’s been an incredibly busy and fruitful
September here at Holy Trinity. The
ministry we have done for the glory of God would not have been possible without
your loving labors and fervent prayers.
May the Lord bless you for offering both….
Gratefully,
Pastor
Mary Virginia Farnham
CHRISTIAN EDUCATION
Luthermania plans Halloween fun
All fourth-, fifth- and sixth-graders are invited
to join Luthermania! We meet once a
month for fun and fellowship!
On Saturday, Oct. 27 we will enjoy the
Halloween Laser Light Show at the Novins Planetarium at
Library
Book Review
Harry Potter and the
Deathly Hallows
By J. K. Rowling
Illustrated by: Mary Grandpre
Book Review by: Kristiane Olson
Harry
Potter and the Deathly Hallows is the seventh and final installment in the
Harry Potter series by J. K. Rowling. The first book of the series was Harry
Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, followed in order by Harry Potter and
the Chamber of Secrets; the largest installment of the series, Harry
Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban; Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire;
Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix; Harry Potter and the
Half-Blood Prince, and finally, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows.
This
book was about Harry, Hermione and Ron going out and searching for the six true
things that would help them destroy Voldemort, a.k.a. “The Dark Lord.” His six
weaknesses were called, “Horcruxes.” Horcruxes are a part of someone’s soul,
hidden in an object, a person, or an animal. So, basically, Voldemort cut his
soul in six different pieces. The only way that Harry could destroy Voldemort
would be to destroy all of his Horcruxes, then to kill Voldemort himself.
The
whole time that the three were going out, risking their lives, basically to
save mankind, Hogwarts was running amuck. After the death of Dumbledore, the
previous headmaster, Severus Snape, and his gang of Death-Eaters (Voldemort’s
loyal followers) took over the whole castle. They were killing off kids whose
parents were not Wizards, known as “Mudbloods.”
With
a lot of complications in the plan, unexpected surprises and unimaginable
things happening on a regular basis, this book is one of the best adventure/fictional
books out there. I recommend it to kids 12 years old and older – all the way up
to adult. If you’ve never read the Harry Potter books and you’re curious, go
out, read Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone (ages 10 and older) and
read your way up to the most thrilling, exciting book of the year.
(You
will find all of the Harry Potter titles in the Holy Trinity Library!)
Book
Reviewers Wanted
How
about reading a story with your young child(ren), or reading the same book your
older child is reading, and writing a book review together for the Lamplighter?
It’s
really fun to share a story from different viewpoints. We have over 800
wonderful books in our library, located downstairs outside the nursery
classroom. Additional books can be found in the library kiosk in Fellowship
Hall. All reviewers will have a chance to win a gift certificate for Barnes and
Noble Booksellers in a drawing to be held in Fellowship Hall at the end of the
Sunday School year (May, 2008).
~~
Ellin Greene
EVANGELISM & STEWARDSHIP
Walk With Jesus
Every day is a walk with Jesus. We Christians
believe life is spent in the presence of our Lord. Therefore, we can talk about
every day as a day during which we walk with Jesus. Some days we feel Jesus’
presence. Some days we feel quite a distance from Jesus. We boldly proclaim
that, regardless of how we feel, Jesus is there. Jesus walks with us every day.
As we who are
We believe that
everything we have is a trust from God, given to us to care for and manage.
What we do with our money is very much a part of our relationship with our
Lord. This will be our focus in the coming weeks.
For three consecutive
Sundays we will read a bulletin insert and hear a talk in worship. For three
weeks we each will receive a letter from the congregation. All of these will
focus on our walk with Jesus and how money plays an important part in this
walk.
On Saturday, Oct. 27 and
Sunday, Oct. 28 each member will have the opportunity to complete an estimate
of giving card. On this card, each of us will indicate our plan for giving for
the coming year. This will not only be a plan for giving to
Holy
Trinity Cares
On Sunday, November 4, the
Evangelism Committee will be preparing our famous goody care packages, which
will be mailed to Holy Trinity college students.
We ask parents who would
like their child(ren) to receive a college care package to please contribute a
jar of his or her favorite peanut butter and a box of crackers. Please leave
these in the church office in a bag with your child’s name on it.
The current list of college
student names and addresses is posted on the Evangelism bulletin board in Fellowship
Hall. Please update the mailing address or add your child if he or she is not
on the list. If you prefer, use the “take
home” sheet which you may complete and drop off in the church office.
We suggest that members
of the congregation who would like to contribute donate non- perishable items. (See details below.) We will be accepting
these items through Oct. 28. That gives us a week to inventory items and shop
for any additional items we may need to “round out the packages.”
Should you prefer to make
a cash donation and let us do the shopping, please put your donation in an
envelope marked “Care Packages” and put it in the offering plate or in the
church office.
Home-baked items may be left in the
church kitchen on Saturday Nov. 3. They will be included in the packing on
Sunday Nov. 4. If you would like to bake goodies or have any questions, please
call Pat or Chuck Augustine at (732) 282-0813.
Donation suggestions:
Home baked cookies & brownies
Canned fruit or pudding (snack size) Cup of Soup
Popcorn Individual
packages of chips
Raisins Tuna
fish
Hard candy Lifesavers
Gum Peanut
Butter
Granola bars Crackers
Juice boxes Cookies
Pretzels
(No glass containers or
personal items, please!)
Thank
you for supporting this very special outreach to our college students.
Our
faith family’s heartfelt thanks go to the Augustines for taking this ministry
under their wings!
Introducing …
Our Confirmation Connection Guides
We are blessed to have 40 youth participating in Confirmation
Connection this year! Pastor Mary leads large group sessions during Saturday
evening gatherings. Then, the youth split up into small groups for follow-up
discussion and activities. Ten dedicated lay people serve as “guides” for those
small groups. Here are the bios they prepared to introduce themselves to the
confirmands and their parents. We thought you’d like to “meet” them, too
♥
Tina Braender-Shinn was born in Point
Pleasant and grew up in Point Pleasant Beach. She and husband Raymond settled
in Manasquan. They have two children: Kathryn (who is 18 years old and a
freshman at
Tina
is a nurse and worked for 17 years at both
In
her spare time, Tina enjoys reading, cooking, going to the theatre and spending
time with her family.
She
has been a member of Holy Trinity since 2001. This will be her fifth year
teaching Confirmation. She is looking
forward to another great year.
“My
name is Mark Farnham. I was born and
raised in
Kerry Hudson lives in Wall with her
husband, Bob. They have two children, Katie, 24, and Thomas, 22. Kerry received
her First Holy Communion at
She
is a graduate of Rutgers College of Pharmacy and is employed as a pharmacist at
Shop-Rite of Wall. Kerry is active with the Holy Trinity Coffeehouse
Christians, Faith and Film, sales and bazaars.
This is Rachel Howe’s second year as a
Confirmation Guide. Her son, Thomas, is a first year confirmand and her
daughter, Allison, will receive her First Holy Communion this year. Rachel was
confirmed at Christ Lutheran,
Mallory Kennedy and her husband Kevin have just celebrated their
20 year anniversary. (They were married here at Holy Trinity!) Mallory has been
a member of Holy Trinity for more than 37 years. Kevin and Mallory have three
children: Mallory (18 years old), Morgan (15 years old), Kyle (13 years old)
and an adorable Wheaton Terrier named Tucker. Mallory has taught Sunday School
here and this is her second year as a Confirmation Guide. She looks forward to
another exciting year with her Second Year Confirmands.
My name is Terri Restucci and I am a first year
Confirmand Guide. This is my first time teaching confirmation, however, I have
about 15 years experience teaching Sunday School - preschoolers through 8th
grade. It is something that I love to do. I am currently teaching the 3rd
Grade Sunday School class and am helping with their First Communion. I am also
part of the Christian Education Committee.
I was originally born in
We then moved to
I love to read, walk my
dog, garden and be with my family. I feel truly blessed to have found a
wonderful home at Holy Trinity.
Shelli and Walt Ritchie were married in
“We live in Manasquan, on
“We have three grown-up
girls: Shannon, Holli and Heather (I always throw Heather in there because she
lived with us for a long time and it really stinks to be left out) and three
almost grown boys: McCoy, (17), Zachary, 16, and Tucker, 13. We have two
granddaughters, Colie, 10, and Danielli, 3.
“We also have a pet (not
very smart but really cute), Annie the Wonder Dog. We could sneak her in if
you’d like J.
“Mr. Ritchie is a big
construction site inspector and is working on a site in
“Mrs. Ritchie is a
private duty nurse and I always work locally because I don’t travel well.
“We like to go camping
and we organize the church camping trip every summer. It’s three days and you
are all required to go – FOOLING J -- but we always have room if you are
interested. Some of you have already camped with us and keep coming back so
that’s a good sign.
“Mr. Ritchie enjoys
sailing, building things, fixing all the neighborhood kids’ bikes and – if I
would give him some free time – he would ride all over on his motorcycle.
“I enjoy reading, sewing,
garage sales and buying shoes for my dear friend Pastor Mary on E-Bay (ask her
sometime about that, kids).
“We have helped and
taught Confirmation Connection before and found it to be great fun. I’m
positive we will have a fun year and am so happy I got all the kids that I
hoped I would get. Yes, I mean you.
“If you need to talk to
us for anything – church related or anything at all -- we can be reached at
(732) 223-4109. If there’s no one home, leave a message. We’ll call back.”
Mark Solan is married to his wife,
Doreen. They have three sons, Adam, 26, and twins, Chris and Ryan, 21. The
Solans also have three Basenji dogs (Dharma,
Mark
is the senior vice president of IT/Ops at Online Resources,
For
“fun” Mark runs, rides bikes and motorcycles, fishes, reads, participates in
multi-sports competitions like bike/run events. He also enjoys photography,
golf, keeping fit and meditation.
Mark
says he has lots of fun as a Confirmation guide and with the kids at Holy
Trinity.
Valerie Stutesman, a graduate of
Valerie is Past President of the New Jersey
Chapter of the International Public Management Association for Human Resources
(IPMA-HR). She has served as President
twice for the New Jersey Chapter and currently holds a position on the
Executive Board of the Eastern Region.
Ms. Stutesman is also a member of the Princeton Chapter of the Society
for Human Resource Management.
Valerie is a life long resident of the
Ms. Stutesman is a member of the VFW Ladies Auxilary
and volunteers time to the Salvation Army.
One of her proudest honors is being godmother to her cousin’s daughter
Kelsi.
Chidren of God
During the month of September, Holy Trinity
welcomed the following children into the Body of Christ through the Sacrament
of Holy Baptism:
Brandon James Risko (Sept. 23)
Jessica Rose Mackown (Sept. 30)
Rest in Peace
Our prayers and thoughts are with the families who mourn the
death of loved ones …
Mildred Pazienza, who passed away
Sept. 4. Pastor Mary presided at a funeral for Mildred on Sept. 17 at Holy
Trinity.
Eunice
Flint, who passed away August 17. Pastor Mary presided at a graveside service for
Eunice on Sept. 18 at
Robert
Olsen, who passed away Aug. 3. Pastor
Mary presided at a memorial service for Bob on Sept. 22 at Holy Trinity.
Frederick “Fritz” Mueller, who passed away
Friday, September 21. Pastor Mary presided at Fritz’s funeral at Holy Trinity
and burial at
PROPERTY
Fall Cleaning About to Begin
Fall is here and property clean-ups begin in earnest. We usually
rake leaves and other debris on the church grounds several times a year. We
would like to cut down the scheduled cleanups and go to a less structured
system.
Anyone
who is interested in doing some raking or trimming around the church grounds on
weekdays or early evenings should call Buzz at (732) 899-3490 or send an e-mail
to Buzgoode@Verizon.net. I will try
to coordinate your availability with that of other volunteers.
Thanks for your help! Let’s
all pitch in to keep the church looking beautiful.
~~ Buzz
Goode
Co-chairperson,
Property Committee
Project Keeps Blanketeers in Stitches
The Holy Trinity Blanketeers will
meet at
Please join us if you like to knit,
crochet, sew or quilt.
For more information, call Gloria
Smith. Her telephone number is (732) 449-1942.
W. E. L. C. A.
Fall is a good time to
join one of our women’s circles so you can help support our church and
community projects for the year. Please
consider joining one of the following Circles of WELCA (the Women of the
Circle of Hope will meet on Saturday,
Oct. 13 at 9 a. m. at church. They will
be planning projects for the year and completing health kits. To join, call Nancy Smarr at (732) 681-3369.
WORSHIP AND MUSIC
Notes from the Director of Music
The first event in the
Holy Trinity Concert Series will be an organ concert at
Children’s
Choir will be starting during the first week of October. If you haven’t already
signed up your child, please do so ASAP. Rehearsals will be at
A
as
Coffeehouse Christians Regroup
Coffeehouse Christians
began about two years ago under the leadership of Pastor Leitzke. It is a
ministry that brings church outside the church building and out into the
community. This ministry has the potential of continuing, but we need you to help that happen.
We meet the third Tuesday
of every month. The location for future meetings has not yet been determined.
Look for more details in upcoming weekend worship bulletins.
At our July gathering,
Pastor Leitzke introduced the group to "No Experience Necessary" a
workbook put out by
Fortress. The workbook is structured so that
anyone can lead a bible study (and in our situation Coffeehouse Christians)
with no experience. I led the August meeting and found this to be the case. As
a group we read the scripture passage that coincided with the lesson. The
leader then asked the group three questions. The beautiful part is that they
are the same three questions for each individual lesson, and there are no right
or wrong answers. The questions simply spark the group discussion.
The workbook includes other
articles that can be read together. Sometimes they follow-up on topics we
have been talking about and sometimes they lead us into the next chapter or
verse of scripture.
Whoever leads the group will have to put in very
little prep time. I simply read the scripture and articles and tried to have an
answer for the first question so that I would be able to start the
conversation. A limited number of workbooks are available in the church office.
More can be ordered.
The Coffeehouse Christians ministry is not
limited to members of Holy Trinity. Please join us and bring a friend. I
promise it will prove to be fun as we share and learn together.
~~
Rebecca Parker
Chairperson,
Worship and Music Committee
MAIL BAG
Dear Pastor Mary and all my special friends at
Holy Trinity,
Thank
you for the beautiful cards, messages and letters you sent me in
It was very kind and thoughtful of you and I am
so grateful. May God bless you always.
The
Lamplighter keeps me very current about my church. Thank you, Diane.
With
a grateful and loving heart,
Emma F.
Olsen
♥